How to capture someone’s heart. Advice from Jewish Dating Coach
May 15th, 2020
By Yani Gantz, Jewish Dating Coach
Between pleasing potential candidates and keeping up with the competition, many people lose their identity, their true selves. You need to understand that wearing someone else’s mask is a recipe for failure. How long can you keep up the act? When you get back to being yourself that potential candidate will lose interest or just walk away. You will only conquer the heart of the one you love by being yourself, or more accurately, the best version of yourself. How can you do that? Well, you need to work on personal and emotional growth. The more complete you are the more successful you will be in every aspect of your life, including relationships. As a Jewish Dating Coach, I see the success this brings.
Put some effort into looking your best, head to toe. Your appearance is your first impression, and the one that people will always remember. Wouldn’t you love to have a partner that you are proud of? Not just for looks, but character, virtues, and values. It is also important to build confidence; this is one of the most attractive qualities that you can possess. Be independent, great candidates love independent people, especially those who are successful. Keep in mind that kindness, compassion and generosity are highly desired. A valuable candidate wants a partner with a warm heart, a real partner! Someone who can run a house, be a great example to their kids, someone in whom they find comfort and strength. When looking for your Bashert you should aim for more than their hand; you want to conquer their heart!
May your qualities, values, virtues and strengths be a strong foundation to a successful and long-lasting marriage!
Best of luck,
Yani Gantz
Love & Life Coach
Yani is a Jewish dating coach and relationships expert. We hope you enjoyed her Jewish Dating coach advice, and we look forward to her next blog!
Great post Yani! Look forward to reading more.