Jewish Dating: End of the Road!
August 17th, 2015
I’m afraid this will be my last week working for SawYouAtSinai, so goodbye and good luck to all my readers and daters! Here is just a few mouthfuls of assorted dating tips that I want to leave you with!
- Compliments are a great way to endear yourself to your date. Your compliments should be based upon good things that really do impress you. Some great compliments are telling your date he/she is smart, good-looking, kind, or funny.
- Laughter and smiling is also very important for the atmosphere of the date. Your date will feel clever and funny if you are willing to laugh a little at his or her wry comments or stories. In some ways, laughter can be better than a compliment!
- Find things you have in common to talk about. Movies? Sports? Friends? Hobbies? Or, if that doesn’t work, listen to what your date is passionate about, and ask intelligent questions to show you’re interested too.
- You should be yourself on a date, but be your BEST self. In other words, be honest about the kind of person you are, but have good manners, dress nicely and be considerate.
- Once you get to know your date pretty well, inquire about his or her plans for the future. You both must come to an agreement if that is to work out.
- If you and your date are going to a bar for a date, have some alcohol, but know your limits! The last thing you want to do is get drunk on a date.
- Make sure to coordinate with your date whether you will be going out to eat, and what type of attire should be worn. You don’t want your date to be hungry at the museum or extremely well dressed at a baseball game.
- Don’t be too specific about your criteria for the perfect spouse. Most people end up marrying people completely different than they imagined, yet they are even happier! Think about what criteria must be a dealbreaker, and what doesn’t have to be.
I suppose that’s all folks! So long!
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